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Thursday, September 30, 2010

The Purpose of Life

Human-being is considered to be the finest creature of God.
மானிடராய்ப் பிறத்தல் அரிதினும் அரிது.
எண்ணரிய பிறவிதனில் மானிடப் பிறவி தான் 
            அரிதினும் அரிது காண்
இப்பிறவி தப்பினால் எப்பிறவி வாய்க்குமோ 
            யாது வருமோ அறிகிலோம்

Mankind is considered as the supreme  creature among the creations of God.Why it so ? What is the reason for this supremacy ?
Because, we, the human -being, has the sixth sense (பகுத்தறிவு ); We only can distinguish between Good & Bad. We can analyze the pros & cons of an action.In spite of being created as a supreme creature, if we still continue to live like other creature, what is the use of our life?
Animals also search  for their livelihood : build homes (nest,den etc) ; look after their young ones. If we too do the same things, what is the purpose of our life?It does not mean that you should leave all . The main purpose of our life is remembering God. While doing your  duties,you should not forget the Supreme Lord.
Saints & Yogis consider this materialistic world as Maya. Maya means illusion.God only creates this world also.Why HE creates an illusion world? HE wants us to understand the Maya (illusion) with the help of Maya (world) itself. I'd written about this in my last post, You can conquer MAYA with the help of Maya itself -.
Here is another example.
If we want to solve a maths problem, we used to assume the variable whose value to be found as x.For example, to find interest for Principal (P),rate of interest (R) & no of years (N).In this problem, we already know P,N,R & we have to find Interest.Now.we assume Interest as x and applying the formula
                                  x = PNR/100
we calculate the answer. After getting the value,is there any significance for x? x helps us to reach the solution. Thats all. 
similarly,Maya ( world) helps us to understand the nature of illusion. After knowing this we should get rid off this illusion and start thinking of God & pray .
 
 

Monday, August 23, 2010

SCIENTISTS have discovered how Leonardo da Vinci managed to create the enigmatic smile of the Mona Lisa.


SCIENTISTS have discovered how Leonardo da Vinci managed to create the enigmatic smile of the Mona Lisa. They believe they have discovered how he managed to achieve his distinctive smoky effect on the painting by applying up to 40 layers of extremely thin glaze which is believed to have been smeared on with his fingers, London's The Sunday Telegraph reports.

Using subtlety different pigments the glaze creates the slight blurring of the shadows around the mouth which gave the Mona Lisa her barely noticeable smile which appears to disappear when looked at directly.

Scientists used X-rays to study the painting and were able to see how the layers of the glaze and paint had been built up to varying levels on different areas of the face.

Dr Philippe Walter, who led the French study, said: "The perfection of Leonardo da Vinci's painting technique has always been fascinating. The gradation of tones or colors from light to dark is barely perceptible. The thinness of the glaze layers must be underlined; it confirms the dexterity of the painter to apply such thin layers."

Friday, August 13, 2010

Interpretation of Scriptures

Brahma created Devas (Gods), Asuras (demons) and men and sent them to inhabit the heaven, the nether regions and the earth respectively. The very next day a delegation from each of the three groups waited on the creator (Brahma) and told him, “Each one of the three groups has specific characteristic qualities thoroughly distinct and different from the other groups. Please give us one formula by adopting which we could all one day reach the ultimate bliss.” Brahma repeated three times the syllable ‘Da’. All the supplicants nodded their heads in satisfaction and thanked Brahma for his instruction.

Brahma took the Head of the Devas aside and asked him what he understood, he replied “By ‘Da’ you meant ‘Damadhwam’, i.e. we should exercise control over our senses from time to time. Otherwise as by nature we are all given to unlimited enjoyment of sensual objects like good food, excellent music, dance etc., if we continue to follow this path we will all go down in the spiritual scale and never reach the Supreme Lord. Control over our senses is essential for spiritual progress.”

When Brahma put the same question to the leader of the Asuras, the latter answered – “Sir, by ‘Da’ you obviously meant ‘Dayadhwam’ (exercise compassion). By nature, we are cruel and of sadistic temperament and if we continue in that path we shall become miserable and be consigned to the Hell ultimately. If we can show some compassion to the fellow beings, we shall be uplifted.

Lastly, in answer to a similar query, the leader of men answered Brahma – “Sir, we are by nature given to ‘parigraha’ i.e. accumulation of more and more worldly possessions. We do not feel like throwing away even the empty cans of tinned fruits or even an old broomstrick which has become thin with use. Such a vasana (conditioning) is sure to pull us down. The only way to escape is by parting with money or other possession by giving it away to the poor and deserving people. By ‘Da’ you surely meant Data *or Dana– “Give away in charity.”

Brahma told all the three groups that they were absolutely correct in their respective interpretation of his mono-syllabled instruction. Among men themselves some have Divine and Godly qualities, some have demoniacal qualities and the rest have human qualities. Each group tends to interpret the divine revelation in the scriptures in terms of their own vasanas (latent tendencies) and definitely it will be suitable for respective group in order to eliminate the vasanas predominant in that group. This is why texts like Bhagavad Gita have numerous commentaries with widely differing interpretations and each one of them is correct and appropriate for a particular type of aspirants
*Data – The giver (From ‘Maitreem Bhajata’ song sung by M.S. Subbulakshmi the United Nations as composed by the Sri Kanchi Swamigal)

Thursday, August 12, 2010

SENSE OF ‘I’ AND ‘MINE’ ARE THE GREATEST OBSTACLES IN PATH OF SPIRITUAL GROWTH.

A miserly rich old lady and was living alone. Her main desire was to go to Heaven and enjoy, after death. She would never willingly part with even a rotten apple for a beggar.

One day a hungry old monk entered her house, sat down outside her kitchen and refused to leave unless some food article was given to appease his hunger at least partly. She was helpless and finally got rid of him by donating a carrot half of which had rotted which she was planning throw out.

A few years passed and suddenly one day she saw Yama, the God of death standing before her and ready to take away her soul. Yama told her, “I have come to take you to hell as you have never done a single good deed in your life.” She remonstrated “You are wrong. I am entitled to go to heaven. Check up your ledger. Five years back, on a particular day I have done a selfless service by donating a carrot to a monk.” Yama was able to trace the entry in her ledger account. With an apology he told her: “You wait outside your house for a few minutes. In half an hour a golden carrot will descend till it is within the reach of your hands. If you catch hold of it, it will take you to the Heaven.”

The old lady quickly dressed herself up gorgeously (in a new saree) and was waiting in the street when a golden carrot descended towards her. She caught hold of it which began moving upwards like a balloon, while she was hanging from it. A vendor of vegetables who was standing by her side immediately caught hold of her feet and the carrot was carrying both of them. Another lady who was seeing this scene caught hold of the vendor’s feet. Thus a number of people hung on to each other’s feet one below the other and the carrot was taking them all upwards. Lady, unaware of people hanging one below the other went on enjoying the scenery.

When she was almost nearing the gates of the Heaven, she had a last look on the earth she had left behind and beheld to her horror a number of people hanging one below the other under her support. She shrieked at them – “You fellows there get down and leave my feet. This carrot is mine and I alone am entitled to go to heaven.” In order to emphasise the words “mine” with a suitable gesture, she touched her heart with both the hands. As she had unwarily left hold of the carrot, she fell down carrying all the people hanging in that line.
SENSE OF ‘I’ AND ‘MINE’ ARE THE GREATEST OBSTACLES IN PATH OF SPIRITUAL GROWTH.

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

How is Rakhi Festival celebrated in India? and its Legendary Importance

Rakhi festival or Raksha Bandhan festival is one of the most popular Hindu festivals in India, which celebrates the sacred bond of love between brothers and sisters. The term Raksha Bandhan is originated from the Hindi language, which means a relationship or an association based on protection. Rakshabandhan festival, which has a long standing Indian heritage, is more commonly known as Rakhi.

Rakhi festival is celebrated on the Shravan Purnima (full moon day of the Hindu month of Shravan (July - August), where in sisters tie the sacred Rakhi thread on their brothers right wrists, and pray for their long life. Raksha Bandhan or Rakhi is called by various names such as Vish Tarak (the destroyer of poison), Punya Pradayak (the offer of boons), and Pap Nashak (the destroyer of sins). The 2010 Rakhi festival date is on 24th August 2010 (Tuesday).

The auspicious Rakhi Thread

As Rakhi signifies the various phases of protection from evil forces, as a mark of this, the sister ties Rakhi string to her brother’s hand. The Raksha Bandhan thread is tied on the right wrist of brothers who in return take a pledge to protect their sisters from all evils. This Rakhi thread binds brothers and sisters into a bond of affection and care for each other. These threads in ancient times used to have simple traditional looks. However, in the modern times, Rakhis are made more attractive, finely blown up using various artistic patterns. Finest quality soft cloth, shimmering beads, stones and zari are used these days to create Rakhi threads. They are also made of silk with gold and silver threads, beautifully crafted embroidered sequins, and studded with semi precious stones.

How is Rakhi Festival celebrated in India?

The traditional way of celebrating Rakhi festival starts with the offerings made to the family deities. Then, the sisters prepare the Thali for the puja which contains the Rakhi threads, kumkum (vermillion) powder, rice grains and an earthen or metal lamp called diya , incense sticks and sweets. They perform the aarti to the brother with the thali and tie the rakhi. They apply the kumkum powder or Tilak on the forehead of the brother and offers sweets. When doing this ritual, the sister prays for her brother's well being. The brother in turn blesses the sister and promises to protect her from the evils of the world. Rakhi gifts are offered to the sisters, as a token of love and affection.

Legendary Importance

A part in the Indian epic Mahabharatha narrates the divine bond of brother-sister love between Lord Krishna and Draupathi.

Lord Krishna, during his battle with the evil King Shishupal, was hurt and left with bleeding finger. Draupathi, on seeing this, tore a strip of cloth from her sari and tied around his wrist to stop the bleeding. Lord Krishna was bounded by her sisterly love and he promised her to repay this debt whenever required. Years later, the Pandavas lost Draupathi in the game of dice. When Kauravas started removing her sari, Lord Krishna helped her by elongating the sari so that they could not remove it.


Though, Rakhi Festival is more famous in north and western region of India, Raksha Bandhan festival is celebrated with much religious importance all over India. Rakshabandhan is celebrated as Nariyal Purnima in West India, Kajari Purnima in Central India, Pavitropanain in Gujarat. Read more about Rakhi Festival Celebration in India Here.
The old monk sat by the side of the road. With his eyes closed, his legs crossed and his hands folded in his lap, he sat. In deep meditation, he sat. Suddenly his zazen was interrupted by the harsh and demanding voice of a samurai warrior. "Old man! Teach me about heaven and hell!"

At first, as though he had not heard, there was no perceptible response from the monk. But gradually he began to open his eyes, the faintest hint of a smile playing around the corners of his mouth as the samurai stood there, waiting impatiently, growing more and more agitated with each passing second. "You wish to know the secrets of heaven and hell?" replied the monk at last. "You who are so unkempt. You whose hands and feet are covered with dirt. You whose hair is uncombed, whose breath is foul, whose sword is all rusty and neglected. You who are ugly and whose mother dresses you funny. You would ask me of heaven and hell?"

The samurai uttered a vile curse. He drew his sword and raised it high above his head. His face turned to crimson and the veins on his neck stood out in bold relief as he prepared to sever the monk's head from its shoulders.

"That is hell," said the old monk gently, just as the sword began its descent.

In that fraction of a second, the samurai was overcome with amazement, awe, compassion and love for this gentle being who had dared to risk his very life to give him such a teaching. He stopped his sword in mid-flight and his eyes filled with grateful tears.

"And that," said the monk, "is heaven."

Saturday, August 7, 2010

Three Thieves

A Villager wanted to meet the King. He started his journey. While crossing the forest it was dark. Three Thieves appeared before him. The first thieve wanted to kill the Villager after taking all his positions. The Second one was little kind he tied him to the tree. The third one said since they have already taken all his belongings to leave him without hurting / harming him. The Villager had lost everything and standing tied to a tree in the forest.

After some time the third thieve came back to villager untied him and took him to the main road which was leading to the King. Thieve said I can’t come further. From now you have to go on your own.

These three thieves are none other than Three Gunas of a man. The first one is Tamas who will kill you after taking all the positions. Second One Rajas who will tie you with the world. The third one is Satva who will lead you to a path.

But none of them take you to the Ultimate. Satva can only lead upto a path from where you have to continue your Journey to meet the Ultimate.

Is god cruel when we are in difficulty?

Another nice write up from Shridharji.
Sri Krishna and Arjuna were guests of a widow. The widow had no children, nobody expect for a cow, which was only means of her support.

She was a great devotee of Sri Krishna. When Sri Krishna and Arjuna went to visit her in disguise, incognito, she was so happy to see these two divine guests. She fed them with whatever she had in her house. Sri Krishna was extremely pleased with her surrendering attitude and her devotion.

On their way back, Arjuna said to Krishna, “You were so pleased with her. Why didn’t
you grant her a boon? Sri Krishna said - “I have already granted her the boon that her cow must die tomorrow “What? Her only means of support? She has only the cow, and nothing else.
Without the cow how can she live on earth?”

Krishna answered, “You don’t understand me. She always thinks of the cow. The cow has to be fed, has to milked, has to be bathed and so forth. I want her only to think of me, and when the cow is gone, she will think of me all the time, twenty-four hours. Then soon the time will be right for me to take her away from this world, and after a few years I will give her a better and more fulfilling incarnation. When she has nobody on earth, not even the cow, she will try and spend all her time, day and night, in devoting herself to me. Otherwise, this way she will linger on earth and constantly think of the cow and not of me.” So Sri Krishna’s ways are inscrutable

Sometimes when we are in difficulties we feel God is not favouring us, but the Grace of God acts in a very peculiar way which you are unaware of.

God is always helping you but you donot how is helping you.

How much Time we should devote ourselves for Sprititual Development?

Arjuna happened to be great devotee of Lord Shiva. He used to collect hundreds of various types flower and do the sahasranamachrana to devotedly every day. Bhima, was the in strongest in the family. Bhima never, never spent any time on worship. He used to eat and fight. He was a voracious eater and at the same times a great fighter Slowly Arjuna got pride that he was a great Devotee than this Big brother.

Sri Krishna realizing this said one day to Arjuna, “Come, let us go for a walk.” As they were walking, they saw a many carts were carrying the Nirmalyam (the flowers which was removed from the God after puja). The carts were loaded with all kind of flowers. The carts were returning back to carry nirmalyam. Arjuna wanted to know who was offering so much of flower to Lord. The cart man had no time to respond to Arjuna and never replied and there was busy in their work.

Sri Krishna suggested to follow him’ and find out. When he reached the site, he saw Lord Shiva was in midst of hundreds of cart of different kind fresh flowers which was offered to him. Arjuna went and enquired Lord, who is offering so much fresh different kind of flowers. Lord just said He is the greatest spiritual seeker. He just meditates for a second or two by the power concentration of his Meditation and dedication so much of flowers comes and falls on me. Where as you just throw few flowers. He is none other than Bheema who only meditates for few seconds before meals.

Poor Arjuna went back to Lord Krishna and was extremely angry with him for subjecting him to this humiliation. Lord Krishna said to Arjuna, “I wanted to teach you that it is not the number of hours, it is not the number of flowers, but it is the power of concentration, it is the power of dedication that counts

There are devotees who want to show off. For hours they meditate, for hours they chant, for hours they repeat the name of Lord. They look down upon others who do not spend so much time meditating and chanting without concentration and devotion.

QUALITY MATTERS NOT THE QUANTITY.
Thanks to Shridharji.

Friday, August 6, 2010

Laws of nature are not things to take personally. We just need to understand them - and work with them.

Take a look at an apple tree. There might be five hundred apples on
the tree, but each apple has just ten seeds. That's a lot of seeds!

We might ask, "Why would you need so many seeds to grow just a few
more apple trees?"

Nature has something to teach us here. It's telling us: "Not all
seeds grow. In life, most seeds never grow. So if you really want to
make something happen, you had better try more than once."

This might mean:
You'll attend twenty interviews to get one job. You'll interview
forty people to find one good employee. You'll talk to fifty people
to sell one house, one car, one vacuum cleaner, one insurance
policy, or a business idea. And you might meet a hundred
acquaintances just to find one special friend .

When we understand the "Law of the Seed", we don't get so
disappointed. We stop feeling like victims. We learn how to deal
with things that happen to us.

Laws of nature are not things to take personally. We just need to
understand them - and work with them.

True friend Accompanies to You after Death.....Wealth...Relations...Dharma

First of all i thank Shridharji,becz it is his upload.i want to share with u all.
A person had three friends. But he felt more attracted towards the two and as to the third he did not bother much, was rather indifferent to him. Once he was in deep distress. He went to his first friend and told him, "I shall have to appear in a court in connection with a charge against me. I am in great difficulty. So you please help me and accompany me to the court?" The friend's reply was very curt and straight. He said, "what to speak of a court, I can't go with you a single step even."

Thus disappointed by the friend this person felt very sad and approached his second friend and explained to him his distress and difficulty and requested him to accompany him to the court. And the second friend said, "You are in distress. Well, I shall only go along with you some distance. But I can't help you going inside the court and assist you in the case."

The person grew sadder and when he felt absolutely helpless he went to his third friend of whom he did not so long care to take notice. He spoke out to him about the distress he was in and everything about his friends. The third friend listened to him and not only went to the court along with him but cited such irrefutable proofs of his innocence as a witness in the court that the person was released.

The person then felt that the friend whom he had so long neglected had really rendered him the most sincere service at the time of his danger and distress.

Who are these friends? Wealth, Relations and Dharma (virtuous deeds) after death, his wealth (the first friend) will be of no use. The second friend (Relations) will accompany the person only up to the burning Ghat or burial ground. But the third friend is a real friend because he was a friend in need and was his savior.

Let the mind be led to the state of purity or righteousness through the study of scriptures and with association of virtuous people which walks with you not only in this birth but also in the future births.

Thursday, August 5, 2010

Do you See Inside the Glass that is Half-Empty or Half-Full?

Do you often just see just the glass? I know I do. There is no discussion as to whether it is half empty or half full, because often I have not even noticed what was inside. I just saw the “glass”.
Are you judging based on outward appearances?

Sometimes it would happen because I developed a stereotype about what I saw. I saw a bedraggled man, looking more than twice his age on a street corner with a sign. I didn’t see an individual who lost his home and family when he lost his job because I didn’t see the inside. I didn’t know the story.

I saw a multi tattooed teenager with headphones on his ears and ragged jeans, but I never saw the youth who volunteered at a local shelter and played the drums in his church’s music ministry.

I saw a hardened street walker with too much make up and too little clothing for someone who might still be a child herself, but I didn’t see the girl inside, who left a home where drugs, alcohol and abuse were all she has ever known.
Do you look past the stereotypes?

No, I have often only seen the glass. And I have even gotten to know the people who pointed that out to me. Do you do the same?

* Do you hold your purse closer because who you see on the train or bus “looks” hungry for whatever you might have?

* Have you walked on the opposite side of the street from a group of people who did not look like individuals you wanted in your space?

* Have you looked at someone and determined you might never have anything remotely in common with them?

Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle. ~Plato

While we need to be vigilant and careful about who we trust, it’s important to remember everyone has a story and sometimes without knowing the story, you can never determine half full or half empty.

What you see may be far different than what is really there. If you strip away a good circumstance or fortunate experience from your background or eliminate a loving person or two who believed in you, it might be easier to imagine. Yes, there but for the grace of God might go I.

Sometimes what I see was deliberately a result of poor choices and selfish mistakes but sometimes it is the result of circumstances beyond someone’s control and I have no way of knowing that until I see what’s in the glass; until I hear the story.
Look inside the glass that is half-empty or half-full

I never want anyone to look at me and just “see the glass.” Do you?

Play the game fair. Treat others the same. Look inside before you judge the contents. Sometimes the glass is not half full, or half empty. Sometimes it is completely full or totally empty, but it is never just a glass. There is always more to it, just like there is always more to the story than what our eyes see.

Remember to peer inside next time you are tempted to just see the “glass.” You may be more surprised than you ever imagined!
This is an inspirational guest post by Kathy Brunner.

Who Else Want to Be Successful in Reaching Their Dreams?

Who Else Want to Be Successful in Reaching Their Dreams?


Be as Shy as Lucille Ball and as Stupid as Thomas Edison!

Huh?

Almost every successful person has failed first before they were successful. They did not give up and persevered even when others did not believe in them.

Anyone that has tried and failed knows the feeling of defeat. It is the ones that get back up and persevere that know the feeling of success. Choose your path.

I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed. ~Michael Jordan

Following your dreams can be risky, and even frightening. Many people give up before they accomplish those dreams. It is a path that seems long, steep, treacherous, and unattainable. For some of those people, those dreams DO fit into those categories. But, that is not a reason to give up.

It just means hold on tight, pack a lunch, and prepare for a long journey. With the right attitude, hard work, perseverance, and determination you can get to the end of the road.

With ordinary talent and extraordinary perseverance, all things are attainable. ~Thomas Foxwell Buxton

Whatever your personal goals or dreams are, stay focused and never give up.

Enjoy!

We say that we want to know the will of God, but when we find out what it is, we can't handle it. It sounds too scary, too difficult. We decide to look elsewhere. When He says, "Let go of the things that stand between you and Me, and trust Me with your life," it sounds pretty scary. But when we let go, we find freedom and safety in His hands.

A man named Jack was walking along a steep cliff one day when he accidentally got too close to the edge and fell. On the way down he grabbed a branch, which temporarily stopped his fall. He looked down and to his horror saw that the canyon fell straight down for more than a thousand feet.

He couldn't hang onto the branch forever, and there was no way for him to climb up the steep wall of the cliff. So Jack began yelling for help, hoping that someone passing by would hear him and lower a rope or something. "HELP! HELP! Is anyone up there? HELP!" He yelled for hours, but no one heard him. He was about to give up when he heard a voice.

"Jack, Jack. Can you hear me?"
"Yes, yes! I can hear you. I'm down here!"
"I can see you, Jack. Are you all right?"
"Yes, but . . . Who are you, and where are you?"

"I am the Lord, Jack. I'm everywhere."
"The Lord? You mean, GOD?"
"That's Me."
"God, please help me! I promise if You'll get me down from here, I'll stop sinning. I'll be a really good person. I'll serve You for the rest of my life."

"Easy on the promises, Jack. Let's just get you down from there; then we can talk. Now, here's what I want you to do. Listen carefully."
"I'll do anything, Lord. Just tell me what to do."

"Okay. Let go of the branch."
"What?"
"I said, let go of the branch. Just trust Me. Let go."
There was a long silence. Finally Jack yelled, "HELP! HELP! IS ANYONE ELSE UP THERE?"

Have you ever felt like Jack? We say that we want to know the will of God, but when we find out what it is, we can't handle it. It sounds too scary, too difficult. We decide to look elsewhere. When He says, "Let go of the things that stand between you and Me, and trust Me with your life," it sounds pretty scary. But when we let go, we find freedom and safety in His hands."

"Maithreem Bhajatha Akhila Hrith Jaithreem"

"Maithreem Bhajatha Akhila Hrith Jaithreem"

Meaning: Praise (or adopt), friendship which conquers the heart of the World!

"Athmavad Eva Paraan Api Pashyatha"

Meaning:See others as you would see yourself!

"Yudhdham Thyajatha, Spardhaam Thyajatha"

Meaning: Eschew wars and competitions!

"Thyajatha Pareshu Akrama-Akramanam"

Meaning:Eschew attack on others, this is not correct!

"Janani Prithvi Kaama Dughaasthey"

Meaning: The Earth is the Mother who grants all your desires!

"Janako Deva Sakala Dayaaluh"

Meaning:The Lord is the Father who is compassionate to all!

"Daamyatha, Dattha, Dayadhvam, Janathaa"

Meaning:Practice restraint, charity and mercy, Oh People!

"Shreyo Bhooyaath Sakala Janaanaam"

Meaning: Let there be all round prosperity for all people!

The above is composed by His Holiness, Sri Kamamkoti Peethaadhipathi Poojyashri Chandrashekharendra Saraswathi.

Admitting flaws gives you more credibility. A key to selling.

In the mid-1980's researchers at Cleveland State University made a startling discovery.

They conducted an experiment by creating two fictitious job candidates David and John. The candidates had identical resumes and letters of reference. The only difference was that John's letter included the sentence "Sometimes, John can be difficult to get along with".

They showed the resumes to a number of personnel directors. Which candidate did the personnel directors overwhelmingly prefer? Difficult to get along with, John.

The researchers concluded the criticism of John made praise of John more believable. Admitting John's wart actually helped sell John.

Admitting flaws gives you more credibility. A key to selling.

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

ADI POORAM

The months Adi and Thai are important. These mark the start of the ayana (solstice). Ayana means path. Utharayana is when the sun travels from south to north in a northward incline. Dakshinayana is when the sun moves southwards from north to south. The six months Thai to Ani form utharayana, and Adi to Marghazhi dakshinayana. Utharayana with its long days is but one day for the immortals; and dakshinayana with its long nights one night. Thai and Adi, as the start of their day and their night, acquire importance. Adi (July-August) is considered a special month for the Mother in her various manifestations. Adi Pooram is said to be the day when the Mother gave darshan to deities like Sri Devi and Andal, and the day Uma attained womanhood. Hence the celebration of Adi Pooram as a grand festival for the Mother in temples. It is said that dakshinayana is ideal for worship of Shakti and utharayana for worship of Shiva. The offering of pulse sprouts on Adi Pooram day symbolizes Shakti’s engaging in creation on this day. Andal, the only woman among the 12 vaishnavite devotees who composed Divya Prabhandham, is said to have been born on this day. Perur Puranam stresses that worship of the Mother on this day yields immense benefit. Indeed, all four Fridays in Adi are ideal for worship of the Mother. There is special puja on these days in temples.

A Post Card that Changed My Life - An Encounter with JRD Tata

It was probably the April of 1974. Bangalore was getting warm and gulmohars were blooming at the IISc campus. I was the only girl in my postgraduate department and was staying at the ladies' hostel. Other girls were pursuing research in different departments of Science. I was looking forward to going abroad to complete a doctorate in computer science. I had been offered scholarships from Universities in the US. I had not thought of taking up a job in India.

One day, while on the way to my hostel from our lecture-hall complex, I saw an advertisement on the notice board. It was a standard job-requirement notice from the famous automobile company Telco (now Tata Motors). It stated that the company required young, bright engineers, hardworking and with an excellent academic background, etc.

At the bottom was a small line: "Lady candidates need not apply." I read it and was very upset. For the first time in my life I was up against gender discrimination.

Though I was not keen on taking up the job, I saw it as a challenge. I had done extremely well in academics, better than most of my male peers. Little did I know then that in real life academic excellence is not enough to be successful?

After reading the notice I went fuming to my room. I decided to inform the topmost person in Telco's management about the injustice the company was perpetrating. I got a postcard and started to write, but there was a problem: I did not know who headed Telco.
I thought it must be one of the Tatas. I knew JRD Tata was the head of the Tata Group; I had seen his pictures in newspapers (actually, Sumant Moolgaokar was the company's chairman then). I took the card, addressed it to JRD and started writing. To this day I remember clearly what I wrote.

"The great Tatas have always been pioneers. They are the people who started the basic infrastructure industries in India, such as iron and steel,chemicals, textiles and locomotives. They have cared for higher education in India since 1900 and they were responsible for the establishment of the Indian Institute of Science. Fortunately, I study there. But I am surprised how a company such as Telco is discriminating on the basis of gender."

I posted the letter and forgot about it. Less than 10 days later, I received a telegram stating that I had to appear for an interview at Telco's Pune facility at the company's expense. I was taken aback by the telegram. My hostel mate told me I should use the opportunity to go to Pune free of cost and buy them the famous Pune saris for cheap! I collected Rs 30 each from everyone who wanted a sari. When I look back, I feel like laughing at the reasons for my going, but back then they seemed good enough to make the trip.
It was my first visit to Pune and I immediately fell in love with the city. To this day it remains dear to me. I feel as much at home in Pune as I do in Hubli, my hometown. The place changed my life in so many ways. As directed, I went to Telco's Pimpri office for the interview.

There were six people on the panel and I realised then that this was serious business.
"This is the girl who wrote to JRD," I heard somebody whisper as soon as I entered the room. By then I knew for sure that I would not get the job. The realisation abolished all fear from my mind, so I was rather cool while the interview was being conducted.
Even before the interview started, I reckoned the panel was biased, so I told them, rather impolitely, "I hope this is only a technical interview."

They were taken aback by my rudeness, and even today I am ashamed about my attitude. The panel asked me technical questions and I answered all of them.

Then an elderly gentleman with an affectionate voice told me, "Do you know why we said lady candidates need not apply? The reason is that we have never employed any ladies on the shop floor. This is not a co-ed college; this is a factory. When it comes to academics, you are a first ranker throughout. We appreciate that, but people like you should work in research laboratories."

I was a young girl from small-town Hubli. My world had been a limited place. I did not know the ways of large corporate houses and their difficulties, so I answered, "But you must start somewhere, otherwise no woman will ever be able to work in your factories."
Finally, after a long interview, I was told I had been successful. So this was what the future had in store for me. Never had I thought I would take up a job in Pune. I met a shy young man from Karnataka there, we became good friends and we got married.
It was only after joining Telco that I realized who JRD was: the uncrowned king of Indian industry. Now I was scared, but I did not get to meet him till I was transferred to Bombay. One day I had to show some reports to Mr Moolgaokar, our chairman, who we all knew as SM. I was in his office on the first floor of Bombay House (the Tata headquarters) when, suddenly JRD walked in. That was the first time I saw "appro JRD". Appro means "our" in Gujarati. This was the affectionate term by which people at Bombay House called him.

I was feeling very nervous, remembering my postcard episode. SM introduced me nicely, "Jeh (that's what his close associates called him), this young woman is an engineer and that too a postgraduate.

She is the first woman to work on the Telco shop floor." JRD looked at me. I was praying he would not ask me any questions about my interview (or the postcard that preceded it).
Thankfully, he didn't. Instead, he remarked. "It is nice that girls are getting into engineering in our country. By the way, what is your name?"

"When I joined Telco I was Sudha Kulkarni, Sir," I replied. "Now I am Sudha Murthy."
He smiled and kindly smile and started a discussion with SM. As for me, I almost ran out of the room. After that I used to see JRD on and off. He was the Tata Group chairman and I was merely an engineer. There was nothing that we had in common. I was in awe of him.

One day I was waiting for Murthy, my husband, to pick me up after office hours. To my surprise I saw JRD standing next to me. I did not know how to react. Yet again I started worrying about that postcard. Looking back, I realise JRD had forgotten about it. It must have been a small incident for him, but not so for me.

"Young lady, why are you here?" he asked. "Office time is over." I said, "Sir, I'm waiting for my husband to come and pick me up." JRD said, "It is getting dark and there's no one in the corridor. I'll wait with you till your husband comes." I was quite used to waiting for Murthy, but having JRD waiting alongside made me extremely uncomfortable. I was nervous. Out of the corner of my eye I looked at him. He wore a simple white pant and shirt. He was old, yet his face was glowing. There wasn't any air of superiority about him. I was thinking, "Look at this person. He is a chairman, a well-respected man in our country and he is waiting for the sake of an ordinary employee." Then I saw Murthy and I rushed out. JRD called and said, "Young lady, tell your husband never to make his wife wait again."

In 1982 I had to resign from my job at Telco. I was reluctant to go, but I really did not have a choice. I was coming down the steps of Bombay House after wrapping up my final settlement when I saw JRD coming up. He was absorbed in thought. I wanted to say goodbye to him, so I stopped. He saw me and paused.

Gently, he said, "So what are you doing, Mrs Kulkarni?" (That was the way he always addressed me.)

"Sir, I am leaving Telco."

"Where are you going?" he asked.

"Pune, Sir. My husband is starting a company called Infosys and I'm shifting to Pune."

"Oh! And what will you do when you are successful."

"Sir, I don't know whether we will be successful."

"Never start with diffidence," he advised me. "Always start with confidence. When you are successful you must give back to society. Society gives us so much; we must reciprocate. I wish you all the best."

Then JRD continued walking up the stairs. I stood there for what seemed like a millennium. That was the last time I saw him alive. Many years later I met Ratan Tata in the same Bombay House, occupying the chair JRD once did. I told him of my many sweet memories of working with Telco. Later, he wrote to me, "It was nice hearing about Jeh from you. The sad part is that he's not alive to see you today."

I consider JRD a great man because, despite being an extremely busy person, he valued one postcard written by a young girl seeking justice. He must have received thousands of letters everyday. He could have thrown mine away, but he didn't do that. He respected the intentions of that unknown girl, who had neither influence nor money, and gave her an opportunity in his company. He did not merely give her a job; he changed her life and mindset forever.

Close to 50 per cent of the students in today's engineering colleges are girls. And there are women on the shop floor in many industry segments. I see these changes and I think of JRD. If at all time stops and asks me what I want from life, I would say I wish JRD were alive today to see how the company we started has grown. He would have enjoyed it wholeheartedly.

My love and respect for the House of Tata remains undiminished by the passage of time. I always looked up to JRD. I saw him as a role model for his simplicity, his generosity, his kindness and the care he took of his employees. Those blue eyes always reminded me of the sky; they had the same vastness and magnificence.

About the Author:

Sudha Murthy is a widely published writer and chairperson of the Infosys Foundation involved in a number of social development initiatives in India. Infosys chairman Narayan Murthy is her husband.

Tatagroup is one of the largest companies in India and Infosys is one of the largest software business in India.
Thanks to Shridharji,the original uploader.

Monday, August 2, 2010

Hope for the best, and let that hope push you forward. With hope in your heart, you're well on your way.

Replace your worry with hope. And fulfill your hope with action. Send positive thoughts to your most troubling situation. Soon you'll find yourself starting to act on those thoughts.

Instead of worrying about the worst that could happen, allow yourself to hope for the best that can happen. In your mind, make the most positive outcome real. Hope for the best, with passion, conviction and faith. For when you do, you'll begin to see real, workable ways to get there.

There is no situation so desperate that it cannot be turned around. Always, there is a place and a purpose for hope. Hope for the best, and let that hope push you forward. With hope in your heart, you're well on your way.

Sunday, August 1, 2010

Aadi Krithigai – Festival dedicated to Lord Muruga

Aadi Krithigai – Festival dedicated to Lord Muruga

Aadi Krithigai is an important festival celebrated in the Tamil month of Adi or Aadi. In 2010, the date of Aadi Krithigai is August 4. The festival is dedicated to Lord Muruga or Subrahamaniya. Incidentally, the festival is also referred as Aadi Krittika, Kirthigai Kritika and Krithika. The festival is celebrated with fervor in the Murugan Temples in Tamil Nadu.

According to Hindu mythology, Lord Muruga was born as six different babies. And he was looked after by the six Krittika stars. Later, Lord Muruga was combined as a single baby with six heads by Goddess Parvati. There are many variations to this legend.

The Krithigai star or Nakshatram is considered highly auspicious to worship Muruga. And Aadi Krithigai is more important because Aadi is the first month in the Dakshinayana punyakalam – when the sun god changes his direction from north to south.

Devotees carry flower Kavadi on the Aadi Krithigai day. It is celebrated in a grand way with various rituals in Murugan temples across the world.

According to Skanda Purana, Lord Muruga took birth from third eye of Lord Shiva as six flames. Agni and Vayu deva carried the six Flames of Lord Muruga to the Saravana Poigai. Kaarthigai Pengal took care of the six babies from Lotus flowers in Saravana poigai.When Lord Muruga attained boyhood, Goddess Parvati took six babies from Kaarthigai Pengal and made them to single boy with six faces. Hence Lord Muruga is also called Lord Shanmuga. Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvathi granted Kaarthigai pengal boon that special poojas for Lord Muruga will be held in every Krithiga nakshatra.