Are you a REASON, a SEASON or a LIFETIME Friend?
Friendship for a *REASON*
When someone is in your life comes for a REASON. . . It is usually to meet a need you have experienced. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at any inconvenient time, this friend will say or do something to bring the friendship to an end. Sometimes they walk away without saying anything. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on...
Friendship for a *SEASON*
Then friends come into your life for a SEASON. Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done before. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season. The Seasonal Friends are just like "SPRING" in which flowers blossom and after a lot of fun k joys, the time is there for the departure of the season. Once they are lost in the crowded world it is rare to meet them again but it happens if we have true desire for that season...
Friendship for a *LIFETIME*
LIFETIME Friendships teach you lifetime lessons things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other Friendships and areas of your life.
Lifetime Friendships occurs rarely and it is hard to keep up but lifetime friends are a gift from god to someone special. For Lifetime friendships it is said that
"Love is blind but Lifetime Friendships are clairvoyant."
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